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How to Avoid Potential Problems with Home Schooling
A potential problem with home schooling is maintaining discipline. When the child stays at home all day, and
mommy is the teacher, there are certain issues of discipline at stake. It is easy for the child to mis-construe the
freedom he/she has at home and feel that home schooling is just a long summer holiday. This is a potential landmine
and children need to be disciplined right at the start.
Home schooling gives you and your child a truly immense amount of flexibility. You and your child decide where
to learn, how much to learn and when to learn. But,these should be decisions made at the beginning stages. If your
child is too little to take an active part in the decision, chart out a few hours of the day for the various
activities, and stick to it. When there is no outside agency to supervise and no exams to answer, it is easy to get
sidetracked. If your child is old enough, consult him and find out when he wants to learn. Apply your parental
discretion and come up with a timetable.
Homework is also a part of home schooling. What this means is that once lessons have been taught, the child
should be asked to do some part of the course work by himself without your guidance. You will need to make sure
that your child sits willingly and finishes his work.
Courtesy, manners and punctuality are some of the various facets of discipline that a child has to imbibe in the
early years of his life. The school where he interacts with his peers, his seniors and juniors and his teachers
mold these values quite automatically. At home school, the child should be taught the importance of speaking and
behaving in a proper manner and appropriate corrections need to be meted out if behavior is unsatisfactory.
It is advisable to keep aside a particular room or a part of the room for your home school. The child should be
expected to reach his desk at the appointed time, in proper attire with all the necessary material. It is easy to
allow the school to become an extension of play if these ground rules are not laid out and followed. As the
teacher, supervisor, principal and janitor all rolled into one, you should also approach the study area with a
cool
professionalism.
Home schooling is doomed to fail without patience. In spite of all the precautions and steps one takes, it is
easy for a child to get familiar' at home school. At such times, it may be difficult to discipline the child and
get him to listen to you attentively. When this happens, switch to something new. Allow the child to take a
breather and enjoy a break yourself.
It's not easy and it takes effort to make your home shooling program a success. It requires a lot of hard work
and patience. The very informality of the whole procedure sometimes works against it by making it too easy. If you
take steps to establish rules at the very beginning and adhere to these rules, your home schooling experience will
be a huge success and you won't have a problem with home schooling.
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